Find the Middle Ground
The idea of going through a divorce is a scary idea. There are so many things to think about. First are there children involved? Do you have pets involved? What about the house, who will get that?
But one of the other things to think about is alimony. It is becoming more popular that not only do men have ot pay it, but in some instances women have to pay it.
It is important to know your rights. Remember that while things are not working out now, that the more civil you are, the quicker the whole process will be. But at the same time, do not roll over and give in to everything. Find the middle ground and stay there.